I am running on Windows 10 with a Valve Index, using the BlenderXR_Windows_20200506.zip download.
It seems to always want to extrude individual polygons instead of extruding them together, even when I go to tool settings and pick region.
The easiest way for me to reproduce this is to loop cut each axis of the default cube, add a subdivision surface modifier, and then in VR select 4 polys and extrude making sure region is selected and then I get this:

I am running on Windows 10 with a Valve Index, using the BlenderXR_Windows_20200506.zip download.
It seems to always want to extrude individual polygons instead of extruding them together, even when I go to tool settings and pick region.
The easiest way for me to reproduce this is to loop cut each axis of the default cube, add a subdivision surface modifier, and then in VR select 4 polys and extrude making sure region is selected and then I get this: