Wallet Sdk v1 preapproval fetch status is slow

[PHOL-DA]

the https://github.com/canton-network/wallet-gateway/blob/main/sdk/wallet-sdk/src/wallet/namespace/amulet/preapproval.ts#L182 method is slow when party is missing preapproval and the

     * @param options.expectGone Set true to resolve when no preapproval is returned (post-cancel).

is not available on the method, we should introduce this parameter again.

[PHOL-DA]

@rukmini-basu-da using 'cancelled: true' does not fix the problem, since when asking for a preapproval that does have a contract it runs the entire timeout length.

The method should have some behavior for "call only once" and return the result. currently with cancelled: false we run the full timeout if the preapproval is not-present, but with cancelled: true we run the full timeout if the preapproval is present.