feat: support intersect set operations

[KKould]

What problem does this PR solve?

Support INTERSECT / INTERSECT ALL set operations and reduce duplicated implementation between EXCEPT and INTERSECT.

Issue link: N/A

What is changed and how it works?

• Add binder/planner/executor support for INTERSECT and INTERSECT ALL.
• Merge EXCEPT and INTERSECT execution into a shared SetMembership operator with SetMembershipKind::{Except, Intersect}.
• Add ORM .intersect(...) set query builder support.
• Rename the project set-operation SLT from union.slt to set_operation.slt and cover UNION, EXCEPT, and INTERSECT with distinct/all, tuple values, duplicate-count edge cases, NULL membership, and ordering.

Code changes

• Has Rust code change
• Has CI related scripts change

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Test commands:

cargo check
cargo run -p sqllogictest-test -- --path 'tests/slt/set_operation.slt'
cargo test --all

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Note for reviewer

The SQL standard fixture directory is left unchanged; the broader set-operation coverage lives in the project-owned tests/slt/set_operation.slt.